The Question That Deserves More Than a Text
You wouldn't propose marriage in a group chat. So why ask your bridesmaids that way? Hide the question inside a scratch card — with your photo, a personal message, and an emoji rain that makes the moment unforgettable. Free, instant, no app.
Because "Will You Be My Bridesmaid?" Is a Big Deal
You're not just filling a slot in a ceremony. You're telling someone they matter enough to stand beside you on one of the most important days of your life. That question deserves a proper moment — something they can open, experience, and keep.
The Kind of Surprise They'll Screenshot
They receive a link. They scratch the surface. Your photo appears. Then a message. Then a shower of bouquets, sparkles, or champagne flutes raining down the screen. By the time they read "Will you be my bridesmaid?" — they're already crying.
Not Just Bridesmaids — Your Whole Crew
Bridesmaid, maid of honour, groomsman, best man — the card adapts to every role. Pick the title, choose the theme, personalise the message. Whether you're asking your sister or your best mate, the moment is theirs.
Make the Ask as Special as the Day Itself
They'll remember how you asked. Not the logistics, not the dress code chat — the moment you said "I need you there." Give that moment the weight it deserves.
💐 Create Free Bridesmaid CardHow It Works
Your bridesmaid proposal card is ready to send in under two minutes.
Choose the Role
Bridesmaid, maid of honour, groomsman, or best man. The card colours and title update automatically — pink for the girls, blue for the lads.
Upload Your Photo
Add a photo of the two of you — a selfie, a night out, a holiday snap. It appears when they scratch the card, making the reveal instantly personal.
Write Your Message
Pick from heartfelt preset phrases or write your own. Up to 150 characters — enough for the words that matter, short enough to land perfectly.
Choose the Emoji Rain
Bouquets, sparkles, hearts, champagne — pick the emoji shower that falls when they reveal your message. It turns a moment into an event.
Share the Link
Send the unique link on WhatsApp, iMessage, Instagram DM, or however you two communicate. They tap, they scratch, they find out.
Why a Scratch Card Beats a Text or a Box
A proposal box gets opened once. A text gets lost in the scroll. This gets replayed.
Ready in Under 2 Minutes
Quick free account, no delivery wait, no crafting supplies. Open the link, choose the role, upload a photo, write your message, send. Done.
Your Photo Inside
When they scratch the card, the first thing they see is a photo of the two of you. That's what makes the eyes water before they even read the words.
Emoji Rain Celebration
The reveal triggers a cascade of emojis — bouquets, sparkles, hearts, champagne, crowns — filling the screen with exactly the right energy.
Personal Message
No generic "Will you be my bridesmaid?" template. Your words, your tone, your relationship in every line.
One Link, Any Device
iPhone, Android, laptop — no app, no download. They tap the link and the card is ready to scratch, instantly.
Completely Free
No subscription, no hidden fee, no premium tier for the good features. Every bridesmaid proposal card is free, forever.
What to Write Inside
The message is yours — but here's what hits hardest.
💬 Say What You Actually Feel
"You've been there for every breakdown, every celebration, and every questionable decision. I can't imagine this day without you." Real words land harder than polished ones.
😂 Go With an Inside Joke
"Remember that night we got locked out and slept in the car? I need that energy next to me at the altar." The laugh comes first. The tears come after.
👗 Make It a Reveal
"Scratch to find out your role on September 14th." Don't give everything away — let the scratch do the work. The suspense makes it stick.
🥂 Keep It Short and Punchy
"You. Me. The aisle. Say yes." Sometimes fewer words carry more weight. Let the photo and the emoji rain do the rest.
🤵 For the Best Man
"I've trusted you with my worst secrets. Now I'm trusting you with my wedding rings. Be my best man?" Direct, honest, and a little bit funny.
👑 For the Maid of Honour
"You were my first phone call when they proposed. You'll be the last person I see before I walk down the aisle. Maid of honour?" Start with a memory. End with the question.
Message Ideas
If you're staring at a blank screen, steal one of these.
"💐 We've been through school, heartbreak, bad haircuts, and at least one terrible holiday. I wouldn't dream of getting married without you beside me. Will you be my bridesmaid?"
— Heartfelt ask"🥂 You always said I'd be the last one to get married. Well, surprise. And I need my best woman right there when it happens. Say yes?"
— Funny & warm"🤵 You've been my best mate since we were fifteen. You've seen the highs, the lows, and that haircut from 2012. Be my best man?"
— Best man"👑 You were the first person I told. You screamed louder than I did. Now scratch this and find out what I need you to do next."
— Maid of honour revealTips to Make It Perfect
Small details that turn a nice moment into the one they talk about for years.
Pick the Right Photo
Not the most polished one — the one that makes you both laugh. A holiday snap, a night out, a candid. The photo is the first thing they see when they scratch.
Tell Them to Turn Sound On
The emoji rain comes with a subtle sound. Send a message beforehand: "Open this with the sound up 🔊." It completes the experience.
Build the Suspense
"I made you something. Don't open it until you're sitting down." One sentence before the link doubles the emotional impact.
Ask for Their Reaction
"Screen record when you open this." You'll get a video you can both watch at the hen do — and probably at the reception too.
Send Them All at Once
If you're asking multiple bridesmaids, send all the links within the same hour. The group chat that follows is half the joy.
Switch to Their Language
Got a bridesmaid abroad? The card works in 12 languages. Send it in theirs — it means more than you think.
What People Are Saying
Real asks, real tears, real group chat meltdowns.
"I sent five bridesmaid cards in one evening. The group chat exploded. Voice notes, screenshots, crying emojis for forty minutes straight. Best night of wedding planning so far."
"My maid of honour opened it during her lunch break and called me sobbing. She said the photo of us at Download festival was what got her. I was crying too, obviously."
"Used it to ask my best man. He's not the emotional type. But his reply was "You absolute legend. Obviously yes." Coming from him, that's basically tears."
"One of my bridesmaids lives in Australia. She opened it at 6am her time and sent me a voice note of her screaming. The emoji rain with the champagne was her favourite bit."
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know before you send.
They'll Remember How You Asked.
Not the group text. Not the Pinterest box. The scratch card with your photo, your words, and a shower of bouquets raining down the screen. Free. Ready in two minutes. Unforgettable.