The Question That Deserves More Than a Text
You wouldn't propose in a group chat. So why ask your bridesmaids that way? Hide the question under a scratch-off card with your photo and a personal message, and let the confetti do the rest. Free, quick, no app.
Because "Will You Be My Bridesmaid?" Is a Big Deal
You're not just filling a slot in a ceremony. You're telling someone they matter enough to stand beside you on one of the most important days of your life. That question deserves a proper moment — something they open, scratch, and never forget.
The Kind of Surprise They'll Screenshot
They get a link. They scratch the surface. Your photo appears, the question spells itself out letter by letter, and confetti bursts across the screen. Then your message. By the time they read it, they're already crying.
Not Just Bridesmaids — Your Whole Crew
Bridesmaid, maid of honor, groomsman, best man — the card adapts to every role, with colors and a question to match. Pick the role, pick an icon, write the message. Whether you're asking your sister or your college roommate, the moment is all theirs.
Make the Ask as Special as the Day Itself
They'll remember how you asked. Not the logistics, not the dress code chat — the moment you said "I need you there." Give that moment the weight it deserves.
💐 Create Free Bridesmaid CardHow It Works
Your bridesmaid proposal card is ready to send in under two minutes.
Choose the Role
Bridesmaid, maid of honor, groomsman, or best man. The colors and the question update automatically — pink for bridesmaids and maid of honor, blue for groomsmen and best man.
Upload Your Photo
Add a photo of the two of you — a selfie, a night out, a vacation pic. It's what they uncover when they scratch, so the reveal feels personal from the first second.
Write Your Message
Add your name, then pick one of 11 suggested lines or write your own. Up to 150 characters — enough for the words that matter, short enough to hit hard.
Pick Your Icon
A bouquet, cherry blossoms, champagne, a crown, a tie… choose one of 12 icons. It drifts down the screen while they scratch and sets the mood for the big reveal.
Share the Link
Copy the link and send it by text, WhatsApp, Instagram DM, or however you two talk. They tap, they scratch, they find out.
Why a Scratch Card Beats a Text or a Box
A proposal box gets opened once. A text gets lost in the scroll. This gets replayed.
Ready in Under 2 Minutes
A quick free account for you, nothing for them. No shipping wait, no craft supplies. Choose the role, add your name and a photo, write your message, send. Done.
Your Photo Inside
When they scratch the card, the first thing they see is a photo of the two of you. That's what makes the eyes water before they even read the words.
They Can Answer on the Spot
Reply buttons are on by default: they tap Yes, No or Maybe and get a link to send their answer back to you. Rather hear it in person? Just turn them off.
Personal Message
Start from one of our suggested lines or write your own from scratch. Either way, it's your words and your story in every line.
One Link, Any Device
iPhone, Android, laptop — no app, no download. They tap the link and the card is ready to scratch, instantly.
Free to Send
No subscription, no hidden fee, no paid upgrade for this card. Just a free account for you; they only need the link.
What to Write Inside
The message is yours — but here's what hits hardest.
💬 Say What You Actually Feel
"You've been there for every breakdown, every celebration, and every questionable decision. I can't imagine this day without you." Real words land harder than polished ones.
😂 Go With an Inside Joke
"Remember that night we got locked out and slept in the car? I need that energy next to me at the altar." The laugh comes first. The tears come after.
👗 Make It a Reveal
"Scratch to find out your role on September 14th." Don't give everything away — let the scratch do the work. The suspense makes it stick.
🥂 Keep It Short and Punchy
"You. Me. The aisle. Say yes." Sometimes fewer words carry more weight. Let the photo and the confetti do the rest.
🤵 For the Best Man
"I've trusted you with my worst secrets. Now I'm trusting you with my wedding rings. Be my best man?" Direct, honest, and a little bit funny.
👑 For the Maid of Honor
"You were my first phone call when he proposed. You'll be the last person I see before I walk down the aisle. Maid of honor?" Start with a memory. End with the question.
Message Ideas
Staring at a blank screen? Steal one of these. The question itself shows up on the card automatically.
"💐 School, heartbreak, bad haircuts and one truly terrible road trip. I can't picture my wedding day without you right beside me."
— Heartfelt"🥂 You always said I'd be the last one to get married. Well, surprise. And I need my best girl right there when it happens."
— Funny & warm"🤵 Best friends since ninth grade. You've seen the highs, the lows and that haircut from 2012. Nobody else I'd want standing up there with me."
— Best man"👑 You were the first person I told. You screamed louder than I did. Now I need you for one more very important job."
— Maid of honorTips to Make It Perfect
Small details that turn a nice moment into the one they talk about for years.
Pick the Right Photo
Not the most polished one — the one that makes you both laugh. A vacation pic, a night out, a candid. The photo is the first thing they see when they scratch.
Time It Right
Free cards stay live for 7 days after you create them, so make yours close to when you want them to open it, and grab a screenshot of the reveal.
Build the Suspense
"I made you something. Don't open it until you're sitting down." One sentence before the link doubles the emotional impact.
Ask for Their Reaction
"Screen record when you open this." You'll get a video you can both watch at the bachelorette — and probably at the reception too.
Send Them All at Once
If you're asking multiple bridesmaids, send all the links within the same hour. The group chat that follows is half the joy.
Switch to Their Language
Is Spanish or Portuguese her first language? Switch the site to it before you create the card and the question shows up in her language. 12 languages available.
What People Are Saying
What happens when the big question shows up under a scratch-off.
"I sent five bridesmaid cards in one evening. The group chat exploded. Voice notes, screenshots, crying emojis for forty minutes straight. Best night of wedding planning so far."
"My maid of honor opened it during her lunch break and called me sobbing. She said the photo of us at Coachella was what got her. I was crying too, obviously."
"Used it to ask my best man. He's not the emotional type. But his reply was "Dude. Obviously yes." Coming from him, that's basically tears."
"One of my bridesmaids lives in Australia. She opened it at 6am her time and sent me a voice note of her screaming. The champagne glasses falling down the screen were her favorite part."
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know before you send.
They'll Remember How You Asked.
Not the group text. Not the Pinterest box. The scratch-off with your photo, your words, and a burst of confetti. Free. Ready in two minutes. Unforgettable.